Fabian Society – Key Player in the Rothschild World Order


(Official Fabian emblem, a wolf in sheep’s clothing.)
Founded in 1884, the Fabian society has been plotting world government tyrannyfor 137 years. George Orwell and Aldous Huxley were members. Their dystopian 
novels Brave New World (1932) and 1984 (1949) now seem like predictive programming.
By CR(henrymakow.com)

In recent times, many people have been comparing
 current affairs to George Orwell’s novel 1984 which depicts a dystopian society.  Orwell was not a visionary. He was a member of the Fabian Society which has been plotting a socialist world government for over a century.

A British organization closely aligned with the Labour party, their own website describes them as a socialist think-tank which believe “that radical long-term goals are best advanced through empirical, practical, gradual reform” – i.e the “boiling the frog” strategy.

Their logo is a wolf in sheep’s clothes – a fitting analogy.

As for their political influence in the UK: “Every Labour prime minister has been a Fabian and today 100s of Labour politicians are members of the society, including Labour leader Keir Starmer MP and more than half his shadow cabinet, as well as senior figures in devolved and local government.”

So the first conclusion to be drawn from this is that George Orwell was acting as a theorist for a radical socialist group when he envisioned the world described in 1984, but it goes further than just Orwell.


H.G. Wells (1866-1946) was also a Fabian and was the author of the 1940 bookNew World Order, a non-fiction work which outlines plans for a socialist one-world government.  In it, he describes a human rights declaration which served as the basis for the UN Universal Declaration of Human Rights.

He may have been one of the first people thinking about genetic modification and transhumanism. His 1896 book The Island of Dr. Moreau is about a mad scientist creating human-animal hybrids.

Wells also wrote War of the Worlds, describing an alien invasion.  

H. G. Well’s ‘A Modern Utopia’ (1905) describes a world ruled by a “World State” (global government) that “owns” the entirety of the planet. An order of “voluntary nobility” known as the Samurai rule the world to resolve the “problem of combining progress with political stability.” Humanity is vegan, all genders are equal, human races are no longer recognized, automation renders physical labor near-obsolete, and currency is based on units of “energy.”

Well’s ‘The Shape of Things to Come’ (1933) speculates on future events up to the year 2106. He envisions a world left in ruins by a catastrophic global conflict, in which a self-appointed elite takes the reins to rebuild society — and humanity itself — via massive worldwide social engineering. They establish a World State that abolishes all religions, the need for physical labor, and social classes, reducing the entirety of humanity to “middle-class intellectuals.” Eventually, the World State “withers away,” Marxist-style.


The Freemason Orson Welles (no relation) made an infamous radio broadcast based on War of the Worldswhich was presented as a newscast and had the effect of causing mass panic among listeners, many of whom believed we really were under attack by Martians.

This incident looks more like a social experiment than anything.  This was a one-time broadcast back in 1938, people were terrified despite never seeing anything in real life to suggest that aliens were invading.  Wells, Welles, and others would have recognized the immense power that comes with media control.

Compare it to the non-stop covid fearmongering campaign we have been subjected to for nearly two years. 
 Nobody can personally verify that covid is real. Even the CDC says that PCR tests can’t tell the difference between covid and the flu.  

Now we are told it is a Chinese bioweapon – much scarier than the original bat virus story.  

The vaccines are killing people and vaccinated people are dying from covid, but everyone needs to take the vaccine and can be banned from society and you might lose your job if you don’t.

Replace Martians with a virus and imagine broadcasting it every day on every station, channel, and news site and you see how we got here.

The climate change/environmentalism scam, which may be the key to a socialist global government, and the transhumanist agenda also have roots in the Fabian Society. 
 Aldous Huxley (1894-1963) was also a Fabian.  He is best known for his bookBrave New World, (1932) which describes a dystopian future where humans are biologically engineered.


His brother Julian Huxley (1887-1975) was also a member of the Fabian Society. He was also president of the Eugenics Society, the first director of UNESCO, and is the one to have coined the term “transhumanism”.

Julian Huxley called Karl Marx the “the true John the Baptist of Modern Social Science” and said that the USSR was “a scientific experiment and the only one ever yet carried out in such a field and on such a scale”.

He was also the founder of IUCN, the UN-affiliated International Union for the Conservation of Nature.  This is one of the main organizations behind the Convention on Biological Diversity, which uses environmentalism as a smokescreen for its plans of transhumanism and genetic engineering as described in previous article. (insert link to biodiversity article)
None of this is a coincidence.

The connection to Freemasonry is confirmed by New Welcome Lodge  which was originally only open to members of the Labour party – most of whom are Fabians.

Just imagine how evil these people are. Not only are they planning to turn this world into a living hell, they write books and make movies about it and get rich selling them to the public.


A Message to Our Customers

y DAVID STELZER, CEO OF AZURE | November 04, 2021

Dear Customers, 

As many of you know, in our press release last week we put out a call for action and an explanation of the challenges we are facing with supply chain issues, shortages, and especially labor! We are still hard at work and also still experiencing shortages. We want to share with our customers what we are up against in the marketplace so you are not disappointed when you see things that are different from what you have come to expect from Azure.

But first, we want to thank you! Our sales are up — significantly. We cannot overstate our appreciation for your trust in us and for sharing Azure with your family and friends. At the heart of Azure is our desire to do everything we can to be worthy of your confidence and treat you well. We are excited that this growth will make us a better company and will increase the availability of organic foods in the long term. Increased demand will reduce prices in the future too, making organic eating more widespread. It is an exciting time! 

We have always said that we view our customers like family. At the end of last month, we put out a ‘call for backup’ asking for help, inviting you to come work alongside us to fill orders in our warehouse. You have demonstrated that you, too, view Azure as family! Many of you answered, and we are so thankful for the loyal, hardworking customers who were able to come to Oregon to help package and fill orders. It has been a privilege to get to know many of you, and we feel incredibly blessed that so many great people have turned out. We could not do this without you. That said, we can definitely use quite a few more good people! Probably 40 or 50 more! 

To give you a picture of what things look like here, the Azure family is working double shifts, seven days a week and around the clock. Many of the kids are eagerly pitching in alongside us. My family is working until about 3 am most evenings right now. Why? Our nation deserves a good food supply even in rough times. Unlike the corporate world, we have partners who genuinely care and want to get food into your homes when you need it most. We really believe in what we are doing here. 

We think many of you, too, may be interested in supporting the growth of organic foods right now. Our warehouse is located in a small rural county with a total population of about 1600 people, so it is not easy to quickly hire enough people to keep up with the growth we are seeing.  We can’t get the food packaged fast enough to get it out the doors on time! We are considering many long-term solutions to attract and keep people. If you have the flexibility and the passion for being a part of Azure, we want to hear from you — please see the note at the end of this letter for more details. 

A Few Changes

We also wanted to let you know that the changes you see right now are not typical, and we ask that you bear with us as we do the very best we can with the supply chain issues. We are keeping our eye on the prize. Our goal, as always, is to serve our customers and deliver quality organic foods to you as quickly as possible. However, we are stretched to our limits, so we have to make a few changes to our normal processes. 

First, we will be offering very few new products right now because our warehouse is really at its max, and getting bags and labels is extremely difficult right now. Believe it or not, packaging is one of our biggest challenges; materials needed for paper labels are sitting on boats in the harbor waiting to be unloaded. The same is true with plastic bags.

You may see black and white labels that are odd-sized or with printing that doesn’t fit the label. We are being as innovative as we possibly can, and sometimes that means stretching or shrinking our product descriptions to fit whatever labels we can get our hands on. We are simply doing what we can to source any type of labeling and bagging material. We decided that it was better to get foods out to you with unusual packaging rather than inconvenience you with delays on the products you need. 

Lastly, some products are unavailable because they cannot be offloaded from the ships. There is a labor challenge due to union activity at the docks over which we have no control. 

We want you to know that we have gone through many highs and lows over the years at Azure. At the start of the pandemic, we also encountered challenges and we worked tirelessly to serve you then as we are now and will continue to do in the future. As with any struggle, we give thanks, because we know we will grow as a company and be stronger for it in the end. Our job is to answer the call to provide quality foods to our customers, through thick and thin, and that commitment is at the core of who we are. Thank you for your patience with any delays or changes. We are so grateful for your support! 


David Stelzer

Want to lend a hand?  Have a passion about food?

If you are strong, hardworking, and would like to make some extra cash, we would love to have you come out to Oregon to work with us. We need help fulfilling orders at the warehouse and packaging products at our mill. Although the positions are temporary, there may be long-term opportunities for those looking to relocate to our area. You can fill out this short form and we will be in touch with you: Azure Employment Form. Thank you in advance!

The Mass Murderer Biden Regime Intends to Force ALL Businesses and ALL Employees to be Jabbed with the Dangerous “Vaccine” even as reports of exploding adverse reactions to the Death Jab proliferate.

The Mass Murderer Biden Regime Intends to Force ALL Businesses and ALL Employees to be Jabbed with the Dangerous “Vaccine” even as reports of exploding adverse reactions to the Death Jab proliferate. 

Clearly, we are witnesses to a conspiracy by our government to kill and maim us. 



The Mass Murderer Biden Regime Intends to Force ALL Businesses and ALL Employees to be Jabbed with the Dangerous “Vaccine” even as reports of exploding adverse reactions to the Death Jab proliferate.

Million Mask March protesters clash with police in London (VIDEOS)

Million Mask March protesters clash with police in London (VIDEOS)

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Follow RT onClashes have erupted between police and participants of the annual Million Mask March in London, as anti-establishment demonstrators set off fireworks at officers and burned an effigy of British Prime Minister Boris Johnson.

Protesters marched through Parliament Square, Trafalgar Square, and Oxford Street on Friday, marking the annual Million Mask March, which draws big demonstrations each year on November 5 against government overreach, income inequality, and, more recently, Covid-19 restrictions.null

Many demonstrators sported Guy Fawkes masks to honour the fictionalised anti-government character depicted in Alan Moore’s ‘V for Vendetta’ graphic novel, on the commemoration day for the real Fawkes.https://platform.twitter.com/embed/Tweet.html?creatorScreenName=RT_com&dnt=false&embedId=twitter-widget-0&features=eyJ0ZndfZXhwZXJpbWVudHNfY29va2llX2V4cGlyYXRpb24iOnsiYnVja2V0IjoxMjA5NjAwLCJ2ZXJzaW9uIjpudWxsfSwidGZ3X2hvcml6b25fdHdlZXRfZW1iZWRfOTU1NSI6eyJidWNrZXQiOiJodGUiLCJ2ZXJzaW9uIjpudWxsfSwidGZ3X3NwYWNlX2NhcmQiOnsiYnVja2V0Ijoib2ZmIiwidmVyc2lvbiI6bnVsbH19&frame=false&hideCard=false&hideThread=false&id=1456721801220870154&lang=en&origin=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.rt.com%2Fuk%2F539493-million-mask-protest-london-police%2F&sessionId=57fe1c983489b294af5f2cecd11aab0af0f7c487&siteScreenName=RT_com&theme=light&widgetsVersion=f001879%3A1634581029404&width=550pxhttps://platform.twitter.com/embed/Tweet.html?creatorScreenName=RT_com&dnt=false&embedId=twitter-widget-1&features=eyJ0ZndfZXhwZXJpbWVudHNfY29va2llX2V4cGlyYXRpb24iOnsiYnVja2V0IjoxMjA5NjAwLCJ2ZXJzaW9uIjpudWxsfSwidGZ3X2hvcml6b25fdHdlZXRfZW1iZWRfOTU1NSI6eyJidWNrZXQiOiJodGUiLCJ2ZXJzaW9uIjpudWxsfSwidGZ3X3NwYWNlX2NhcmQiOnsiYnVja2V0Ijoib2ZmIiwidmVyc2lvbiI6bnVsbH19&frame=false&hideCard=false&hideThread=true&id=1456723395488407564&lang=en&origin=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.rt.com%2Fuk%2F539493-million-mask-protest-london-police%2F&sessionId=57fe1c983489b294af5f2cecd11aab0af0f7c487&siteScreenName=RT_com&theme=light&widgetsVersion=f001879%3A1634581029404&width=550px

“Boris lied, people died,” protesters chanted as they made their way through the streets. At one point, a group of demonstrators burned an effigy of Johnson in protest of the country’s Covid restrictions.https://platform.twitter.com/embed/Tweet.html?creatorScreenName=RT_com&dnt=false&embedId=twitter-widget-2&features=eyJ0ZndfZXhwZXJpbWVudHNfY29va2llX2V4cGlyYXRpb24iOnsiYnVja2V0IjoxMjA5NjAwLCJ2ZXJzaW9uIjpudWxsfSwidGZ3X2hvcml6b25fdHdlZXRfZW1iZWRfOTU1NSI6eyJidWNrZXQiOiJodGUiLCJ2ZXJzaW9uIjpudWxsfSwidGZ3X3NwYWNlX2NhcmQiOnsiYnVja2V0Ijoib2ZmIiwidmVyc2lvbiI6bnVsbH19&frame=false&hideCard=false&hideThread=true&id=1456726531452116992&lang=en&origin=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.rt.com%2Fuk%2F539493-million-mask-protest-london-police%2F&sessionId=57fe1c983489b294af5f2cecd11aab0af0f7c487&siteScreenName=RT_com&theme=light&widgetsVersion=f001879%3A1634581029404&width=550px

Police eventually moved in on the crowd and clashed with some protesters after fireworks were set off, some reportedly close to officers and other individuals.https://platform.twitter.com/embed/Tweet.html?creatorScreenName=RT_com&dnt=false&embedId=twitter-widget-3&features=eyJ0ZndfZXhwZXJpbWVudHNfY29va2llX2V4cGlyYXRpb24iOnsiYnVja2V0IjoxMjA5NjAwLCJ2ZXJzaW9uIjpudWxsfSwidGZ3X2hvcml6b25fdHdlZXRfZW1iZWRfOTU1NSI6eyJidWNrZXQiOiJodGUiLCJ2ZXJzaW9uIjpudWxsfSwidGZ3X3NwYWNlX2NhcmQiOnsiYnVja2V0Ijoib2ZmIiwidmVyc2lvbiI6bnVsbH19&frame=false&hideCard=false&hideThread=false&id=1456709292153843724&lang=en&origin=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.rt.com%2Fuk%2F539493-million-mask-protest-london-police%2F&sessionId=57fe1c983489b294af5f2cecd11aab0af0f7c487&siteScreenName=RT_com&theme=light&widgetsVersion=f001879%3A1634581029404&width=550pxhttps://platform.twitter.com/embed/Tweet.html?creatorScreenName=RT_com&dnt=false&embedId=twitter-widget-4&features=eyJ0ZndfZXhwZXJpbWVudHNfY29va2llX2V4cGlyYXRpb24iOnsiYnVja2V0IjoxMjA5NjAwLCJ2ZXJzaW9uIjpudWxsfSwidGZ3X2hvcml6b25fdHdlZXRfZW1iZWRfOTU1NSI6eyJidWNrZXQiOiJodGUiLCJ2ZXJzaW9uIjpudWxsfSwidGZ3X3NwYWNlX2NhcmQiOnsiYnVja2V0Ijoib2ZmIiwidmVyc2lvbiI6bnVsbH19&frame=false&hideCard=false&hideThread=false&id=1456715124824215559&lang=en&origin=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.rt.com%2Fuk%2F539493-million-mask-protest-london-police%2F&sessionId=57fe1c983489b294af5f2cecd11aab0af0f7c487&siteScreenName=RT_com&theme=light&widgetsVersion=f001879%3A1634581029404&width=550px

Metropolitan Police said in a statement that its officers were forced to “engage” after “a crowd in Parliament Square have been dangerously lighting fireworks and rockets.”Police said they moved into the crowd to “remove any fireworks and prevent people coming to harm.”ALSO ON RT.COMFawkes & Robin Hood didn’t wear masks; ‘hero’ anonymity is US shtick going back to KKK – ‘V for Vendetta’ author Alan Moore to RT

The force had earlier announced they were preparing for the demonstrations with a “significant policing plan.” Officers were in London in riot gear, ready for crowds.

Police have announced that nine arrests have been made at the demonstrations and multiple officers have injuries from clashes with protesters. 

A dispersal order is in place for various areas across Westminster. “Officers are engaging with those in Parliament Square and will be advising them of this order,”Metro Police tweeted.https://platform.twitter.com/embed/Tweet.html?creatorScreenName=RT_com&dnt=false&embedId=twitter-widget-5&features=eyJ0ZndfZXhwZXJpbWVudHNfY29va2llX2V4cGlyYXRpb24iOnsiYnVja2V0IjoxMjA5NjAwLCJ2ZXJzaW9uIjpudWxsfSwidGZ3X2hvcml6b25fdHdlZXRfZW1iZWRfOTU1NSI6eyJidWNrZXQiOiJodGUiLCJ2ZXJzaW9uIjpudWxsfSwidGZ3X3NwYWNlX2NhcmQiOnsiYnVja2V0Ijoib2ZmIiwidmVyc2lvbiI6bnVsbH19&frame=false&hideCard=false&hideThread=false&id=1456740301255626757&lang=en&origin=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.rt.com%2Fuk%2F539493-million-mask-protest-london-police%2F&sessionId=57fe1c983489b294af5f2cecd11aab0af0f7c487&siteScreenName=RT_com&theme=light&widgetsVersion=f001879%3A1634581029404&width=550px

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Resist school indoctrination of children, meeting with Constitution Party and Don Grundman in Modesto, November 11th

Dear Parents and Grandparents,
Help your family and friends to awaken to the Social Indoctrination and sexualization to the deliberate dumbing down of our Beautiful American children, these government centers of the Anti-Christ System are literally destroying our precious children mentally, academically, morally, and even emotionally, physically and spiritually. Don’t let your child or grandchild be victimized any longer!
Do Not Comply with Tyranny at any point. It is Your Right, it is Your Duty to establish what our founders called Lawful governance.
The Constitution party members and friends attend our meetings to hear what is happening in our schools and we are all pushing back against unconstitutional mandates!
We also want to give options for Home Education and have invited three Seasoned, Veteran Homeschool Mothers to give you their encouragement, ideas, knowledge, experience and guidance. They represent many years of a high calling. They will each bring helpful and inspiring information. They will remain for your specific needs and questions as needed.
Our Schools are in Crisis and we can establish alternatives for kids we are responsible for. Encourage new homeschooling parents and friends who are considering this alternative to tyranny.
We will meet on Thursday, November 11, 2021 at Mimis Cafe in Modesto at 6pm for a fellowship time and dinner. (AN ORDER FOR A MEAL OR DESSERT 🍨 allows us the use of the banquet room)*
We will begin promptly at 7PM as to finish up by 8:30.
***Please share this with your friends and family.
Our Special Speakers will include Veteran 🏡 Homeschool Teachers Susan Brock, Joyce Lin-Davies and Tonya Moes, also a presentation by Don Grundmann, Chairman of the California State Constitution Party.
You will be blessed.
Please RSVP as soon as possible to 209 495 9187.
Limited seating.


Many want to redefine marriage these days. Some will argue that marriage isn’t just a piece of paper, so they fornicate and live with someone thinking that this is okay. It’s not. Marriage is a holy institution designed by God Almighty. It’s what makes strong families and strong nations. As families fall, so do nations as we are witnessing in our once great nation.

Here’s God’s definition of marriage: “Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female, And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh? Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.” (Matthew 19:4-6)

Ken and I married almost 41 years ago. Here is a song that was sung at our wedding. It describes God’s perfect plan for marriage. You can listen to Alan Jackson sing it HERE.

With this ring I thee wed
And I give to you my life
Mine is yours and yours is mine
And we can live that way forever
With this kiss we will seal
That we now are man and wife
Two in one, one in two
That’s the way it’s got to be

With this love we can live
We can’t keep it to ourselves
He is mine, He is yours
We can live our lives in telling
I give my heart, I give my soul
I give you all my worldly goods
Two in one, one in two
That’s the way it’s got to be

I will cling to you, you will cling to me
And in the shadow of the cross we’ll live on bended knee

With this prayer I commit
That we both become as one
He in us, we in Him
Saying vows to one another
Hold them fast in your heart
Till the day we see the Son
Two in one, one in two
That’s the way it’s got to be

I will cling to you, you will cling to me
And in the shadow of the cross we’ll live on bended knee

With this prayer I commit
That we both become as one
He in us, we in Him
Saying vows to one another
Hold them fast in your heart
Till the day we see the Son
Two in one, one in two
That’s the way it’s got to be
Two in one, one in two
That’s the way it’s got to be

That’s the way it’s got to be
That’s the way it’s got to be

Marriage is not fornicating and living together. It’s a commitment for life between a man and a woman. It’s a love that bears all things, hopes all things, endures all things, and never fails. It’s becoming husband and wife, one flesh. It’s a mystery, but it’s good since it was created by our Creator. It’s worth saving yourself for, young women. It’s an incredible blessing growing old with one man, sharing children together, and now grandchildren. The blessings are abundant!

Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.
Hebrews 13:4

THIS is Marriage the Way God Intended

Men – Seek Helpmates, Not Soulmates


Thomas Hardy and T.S. Eliot married their secretaries. 
Dostoyevsky married his translator. I married my webmaster.
It was love at first site. 

“Love perfection but do not seek it in a flawed fellow human being, a woman. “
“And God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make a help meet for him.”  Genesis 2:18

Update-  I could almost feel my friend, a feminized male, flinch when I said, “The heterosexual dynamic is based on a man convincing a woman that his plan is in her best interests.” I had committed heresy. These words are politically incorrect in our Cabalist societal cult. Forbidden. Yet ironically they make for successful relationships while feminism usually doesn’t.  
As I have said, men want power; women want love. Heterosexual marriage is the exchange of the two. Women surrender power in exchange for male power expressed as love. Exclusive sex is the symbol of this contract. I’m not suggesting a woman should acquiesce to all men (as they do sexually under feminism) but only to the man who has patiently earned her love (trust) through courtship. If she ceases to acquiesce or he ceases to love, the contract is broken.
The conversation turned to child-rearing. My friend has a four-year-old son and remarked that he is tired of letting his son make the decisions. Children want to be told what to do. Ironically, that is true of many women also. They want responsible loving leadership. Men have been emasculated. Masculinity involves taking loving charge of a woman (and children.) 
In our society, there is a pathological emphasis on “relationships.”  We seek to be validated by other people. Paradoxically, this over-dependence on others tends to impede successful relationships. The most important relationship is with yourself. That’s the only approval we need. 
A woman should not be loved for her sex appeal or beauty. She did nothing to deserve them. They are gifts of nature.  A woman should be loved for her deeds. She should earn a man’s love. 

Updated from April 26, 2014
by Henry Makow Ph.D.

I wish I understood the following 48 years ago when I was 21. 

Men, marry a helpmate, not a soulmate. I have been married to one for 19 years. It works for me. If you can find a “soulmate,” I tip my hat to you.

To those who say helpmates are boring, I say “Hallelujah.” I don’t depend on my marriage for excitement.  However, my wife is not what feminists call “a doormat.” She has a masters degree and a career. She’s smart, honest and has a good sense of humor. 

“You contradict everything I say,” I tell her. “Not all the time,” she replies. 


I have brought her breakfast in bed for 19 years, a gesture of my love and appreciation for letting me be the boss.

So, here’s my advice in ten points. 

1. Man is governed by his thoughts.Imagine steak and he salivates. Imagine a beautiful half-naked woman in handcuffs and he gets aroused. Whoever controls his thoughts controls him. Obviously, it’s best if he controls his own thoughts. 

2. Society suffers from mass hypnosis.  We have been inducted by Hollywood into a bogus religion of sex and relationships which has supplanted genuine religion. Hollywood’s Cabalist Jewish assumptions have become our assumptions. They include 1. Romantic “love” is the meaning and purpose of life. 2. Male life is impossible without women who are paragons of virtue and beauty.  3. Since sex with these angels is the highest experience life has to offer, they do us a favor by sleeping with us. (Ethereal beings, they have no sexual needs.)  The drumbeat, “you’re so wonderful; I need your love and can’t live without you” is repeated ad nauseam by popular music. There is no correlation between a woman’s appearance and her character.  

3. Romantic love is a bogus religion- idolatry. “Love” is an ersatz of our relationship to God. We love perfection. People are not perfect.  “Be ye therefore perfect even as your father in heaven is perfect.” Matthew 5:48. The soulmate we seek is really God.

4. For heterosexual men, “love” usually involves a woman.  But, are women lovable? Most men mistake sexual attraction for love. After survival, sex is our most powerful natural instinct. But that’s all it is. Programming. We shouldn’t allow nature to control us any more than Hollywood.

5. What else can she do? In the “olden days,” men looked for women who could cook, clean, sew, milk the cow and look after babies. Sometimes they could play the piano.  Nowadays, many young women think they need to be good for one thing only, and that gets old fast. 

6. Men were not intended to “love” women in the sense of adore them.That invariably leads to trouble. We adore what we want and we want sex. But that gives them too much power. Let’s look at women, minus sex appeal. Let’s demystify them. 

Women are different from men. They tend to be more passive, emotional, subjective and concerned with down-to-earth practical considerations. On walks, my wife warns me about stepping in dog shit. I have my head in the clouds. She has her feet on the ground. 

Women are primarily interested in security and perhaps are less scrupulous than men. They tend to be insecure and harbor feelings of worthlessness unless a man gives them purpose. These are fine qualities in a helpmate but not a soulmate. 

Paradoxically, this kind of realism makes a man more attractive to women who naturally disdain men they can control. They want to be lovingly controlled. 
7. The whole concept of a “soulmate” is bogus and extremely selfish. It’s based on a time when women weren’t expected to think. They would adopt their man’s ideas as well as his name. Many young men are still looking for these “soulmates.” 

8.  Distance is actually better than intimacy. It’s intimacy elevated to a higher level. It involves a realization that “hey, you’re totally different from me” and “are pretty limited in some ways” but “so am I in other ways and we don’t have to be alike.” It involves respecting differences. 

“Love” as commonly understood forces people to be too close. It holds men and women to an impossible standard.  We’re not all that lovable. I’ll settle for a bond based on respect, trust, consideration, and gratitude. Marriage is better when the societal pressure “to be in love” is removed.

9. Love is based on self-sacrifice.  I love the people who sacrifice for me and give me the benefit of the doubt. It makes me want to reciprocate. We need to clear away the romantic mist and recognize that the basis of real love is mutual dependence. 

10. We don’t recognize how oppressive and time consuming our sexual obsession really is. We’re feel-good addicts. We’ve been trained to search for that “special someone” who will make us “feel good.”  Usually, this ends in disaster because we cannot depend on others for this and call it love. 

In conclusion, women used to sacrifice for husband and family and were cherished in return. They have been reprogrammed to seek power instead of love. Their hearts and their minds are at war. They are ticking time bombs. 

There is no Santa Claus. “Romantic love” is a crock. Sex is meant to be linked to procreation, or at least marriage. It was not meant to be a recreation and full-time obsession.
Romantic infatuation is usually based on some perceived advantage rather than any genuine feeling. It’s a woman’s thing and turns men into women. I hate to see another man waste his life chasing this chimera. 

I advise men to seek women who want to serve them and their goals, who want to have their children and make a home. When you love someone without illusion, a helpmate can transform into a different kind of soul mate.

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