“Wolfinger found a strong correlation among the three cohorts: women who married as virgins had the lowest divorce rates by far. In the 1980s, 11 percent of virgin marriages (on the women’s part) ended in divorce within five years. This decreased to eight percent in the 1990s, and then fell again to six percent in the 2000s. Similarly, women with the second lowest five-year divorce rates are those who had only one partner prior to marriage.” (source)
A woman who has the twitter handle of @GiaMMacool tweeted this recently: “Women release large quantities of oxytocin during sex. Oxytocin is unofficially called the ‘love hormone.’ It emotionally bonds you to your partner. This is why a woman’s body count matters. Pair bonding loses its meaning when you’ve bonded with several men.”
My husband is my one and only. We have been married over 42 years. Even when we were going through a rough time in our marriage, I never once entertained the thought of sexual intimacy with anyone else. I was absolutely bonded to him. I have never had any desire for anyone else. This is the perfect will of God. One man and one woman for life. Keep the marriage bed undefiled even before marriage!
This explains why up to 80 percent of women are the ones initiating divorce. I suspect many of them weren’t virgins when they married. Everything in our highly sexualized culture is persuading them to give themselves away to boyfriends. Dating and fornication set women up for divorce. Once married, they are unable to bond with their husbands as God intends them to do. We weren’t created to have sex with many people. It harms us physically and emotionally.
Many went crazy, even Christians, when I published my post Men Prefer Debt Free Virgins Without Tattoos. Well, all of this explains exactly why men who understand all of this would want a virgin to marry. The risk of their wives divorcing them is small. Teach your daughters and sons truth. Let them know the consequences of fornication. The sexual purity movement did this and now, many women claim it hurt them. No, fornication hurt them just as God’s Word clearly warns us.
Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body.
1 Corinthians 6:18