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Coach Noah Revoy wrote this tweet that is similar to my debt-free virgin post that caused women to be all riled up:
I realize that some women don’t care what men prefer, but there are still many that do. I want to go through this list that he created. Remember, he’s a man and knows what most godly men want in a woman, so if you are single, take notes!
Most men aren’t looking for beauty queens. When he wrote that men want “attractive” women, he spelled out exactly what this meant.
Fitness – Work to get in shape. Don’t overeat but eat in moderation as God commands. Exercise and try to get enough sleep.
Clear skin – “Wait? How can we help this?” We can! Bad skin means one has a bad gut. Health begins and ends in the gut. Learn to eat healthy. Cut out all of the sugar and junk food. In high school, I had bad skin so I cut out all sugar. My skin cleared up. You may need to take probiotics and other things to heal your gut. Check out Dr. Axe’s and Dr. Mercola’s sites and learn how to clear your skin up and eat healthy.
Long hair – Some women can’t grow their hair long. A good friend of mine could only grow it to her shoulders, and her hair was very thin. Grow it as long as you can and don’t look like a man! Yes, even today most men prefer long hair on younger women. Some women have luxurious long, thick hair. I was never one of them but simply do what you can to look and be feminine. After all, God does tell us that long hair is a woman’s glory (1 Corinthians 11:15)!
He goes on to encouraging women to be debt-free which I explained clearly in my debt-free virgin post. College is the main reason that women are in deep debt since our nation idolizes higher education. Matt Walsh tweeted this out a few months ago about an article titled “Enrollment Rate For College Freshmen Drops By Double Digits”: “This is honestly the best news I’ve read in months. Let’s pray the trend continues until dozens of universities are bankrupted and destroyed.” I agree wholeheartedly with him since universities are bastions of Marxism and Feminism which are destroying our nation right now.
I have written plenty about women being virgins and that God commands that women be virgins until marriage. Fornication is sinning against one’s own body. All of God’s commands to us are for our own good. If you can’t understand why it is best to spend that first night with the man you marry, he sure does and will respect your faithfulness to him even more because of it.
What about having domestic skills? Yes! This is so important, young women. If you had a mother who taught you these skills, you are blessed indeed. Don’t use the excuse that you hate to cook. Learn to cook. Learn to keep a clean and tidy home. Learn to love being a homemaker and all that this involves. This is God’s will for you! He created wives to be their husbands’ help meet and to be keepers at home. This is our ministry at home, not our husbands’.
Many women don’t want to be mothers these days. So many couples my age have children who are not marrying and if they do, they don’t want children. One of the main reasons that God gave men such a strong sex drive is so that they would want to marry and have children! Children are gifts and blessings from God. It’s heartbreaking to me how many women on social media tell me that they don’t want to have children. This is most often from a rebellious spirit. God created women to bear, nurse and raise the next generation of godly children.
Lastly, what about tattoos. I wrote a post about this issue after my viral post called “Are Tattoos Sinful?” If you already have them, don’t worry about it. There’s nothing you can do but look forward and know that grace will cover a multitude of mistakes and sins. But if you’re pondering getting them, I encourage you think and pray about it more and don’t do something permanent that so many now regret. Tattoos grow gray and ugly as you age. God made our skin beautiful and tattoos only cause the eye to be distracted from this natural beauty.
The most important thing that Coach Noah left out is the inner quality of a woman is to seek to have a meek and quiet spirit. Learn that godliness with contentment is great joy. Remind yourself daily that the joy of the Lord is your strength. I believe a joyful, cheerful woman is the most attractive trait to a man. Who wants to marry a grouchy, unhappy woman? Worse yet a controlling one? Be in the Word daily, renewing your mind with truth. Don’t be led by your emotions and feelings, but be led by truth instead. God gives us the fruit of His Spirit, so read that list in Galatians 5:22-23 and see that it is far from boisterous self-seeking feminism. God’s ways are always best for us.
But let it be the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price.
1 Peter 3:4