God commands that we FLEE fornication, because it is a sin against one’s own body (1 Corinthians 6:18). It’s vitally important to teach your daughters to remain sexually pure until marriage. I have written about this before. Today, I am going to teach you how to teach your sons to flee from harlots. There are many these days. Feminism has turned women into harlots.
First, you must help them to hide God’s Word in their hearts, so that they will not sin against Him (Psalm 119:11). Then, read and study the first seven chapters of Proverbs with them. I am going to zero in on chapter seven.
“And, behold, there met him a woman with the attire of an harlot, and subtil of heart. She is loud and stubborn; her feet abide not in her house: Now is she without, now in the streets, and lieth in wait at every corner” (Proverbs 7:10-12). Teach your sons to beware of those women who dress like harlots. They love to show off their bodies. They wear tight and revealing clothing in order to entice men. Encourage them to find a woman who is modest and is only willing to show her body to her husband.
Harlots are those who are subtil of heart. Their goal is to manipulate and deceive unsuspecting men. They are sly, cunning, and crafty like Satan was with Eve. Their intent is to cause destruction in men’s lives. Sex doesn’t only ruin women’s lives. It ruins men’s lives too.
She is loud. She is the opposite of having a meek and quiet spirit. She demands her rights. She wants what she wants when she wants it regardless of the consequences. She’s selfish and makes her foolish desires known unto all.
She is stubborn. She refuses to listen to truth. She is always learning but never able to come to the knowledge of the truth (2 Timothy 3:7). She loves to have her ears tickled. She mocks and ridicules those who teach and love Truth. She is a hater and despiser of God and everything good.
She never wants to be home where she belongs. She’s out and about. She goes to the bars, gets drunk, and fornicates with men freely. She has a career and entices men in her workplace. She is flirty and acts innocent but on the inside, she is dark and wicked.
“With her much fair speech she caused him to yield, with the flattering of her lips she forced him” (Proverbs 7:21) With her lies, deceit, and flirtatious mannerism, she tricks men into fornicating with her. She falsely believes that this is empowering to her, but it only causes destruction. She doesn’t mind destroying marriages and families. Life is all about her and her pleasures. Her heart is hardened, and she is continually led by the father of lies, Satan, to do his will which is to kill, steal, and destroy.
“Her house is the way to hell, going down to the chambers of death” (Proverbs 31:27). Yes, she will take them right down to the pit of hell with her.
If your sons are taught these things while growing up, they will grow up to be men of wisdom and flee this destruction. Tell them that porn does the same thing. All of the women in porn are harlots waiting to entice and destroy men. Satan’s goal is to destroy men and masculinity; for if he can do this, he can destroy nations as we are witnessing today.
Then, teach your sons Proverbs 31 and the kind of woman they should be saving themselves for and seeking. It will be worth it! God’s ways are perfect. Drill this into their hearts and minds from the time they are young. Just as you set rules and boundaries for your children, God has set them for us too.
I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that ye present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable unto God, which is your reasonable service. And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God.