Many women do not like it when I teach them to not deprive their husbands sexually, but I will continue to do so since it’s biblical.
“Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency” (1 Corinthians 7:5).
Defraud means to “to withhold wrongfully from another what is due to him.”
Incontinency means “lack of self control.”
Yes, this verse is to the husband and the wife but since I only am commanded to teach women, I will.
Wives are not to defraud their husbands sexually (1 Corinthians 7:5).
When they married their husbands, they have become a wife, a help meet (Genesis 2:18), to their husband.
They are commanded to be obedient to their husband (Titus 2:5).
They are commanded to submit to him in everything (Ephesians 5:24).
They are to treat him how they want to be treated (Luke 6:31).
They are to esteem him higher than themselves (Philippians 2:3).
They are to learn what pleases him (1 Corinthians 7:34).
They are commanded to love him (Titus 2:4).
If he is disobedient to the word, they are to win him without the word by living in subjection to him with godly behavior (1 Peter 3:1,2).
These verses and commands are hard for women who don’t have soft hearts towards the Lord and His ways. Their hearts have been hardened by feminism, selfishness, and sin. They accuse me of teaching women that rape is okay. They will distort what I teach to make it ugly and evil. They know not the bondage that they are in due to the deception they are believing.
Dear women, obeying God has nothing to do with your emotions and feelings. You may not feel like obeying God or you may not be “in the mood,” but as you mature in your faith, these will no longer be excuses you use to disobey God and defraud your husband. Obeying God and pleasing your husband will take over your selfish desires, and you will learn that there truly is freedom in Christ!
Charity suffereth long, and is kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up, Doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil; Rejoiceth not in iniquity, but rejoiceth in the truth; Beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things. Charity never faileth.
1 Corinthians 13:4-8
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