This is a GAB post by Alice Fluegel
Alice FluegelIn the real world, not online, I used to believe that a woman can have male best friend. But I was not conscientious that in such men I was searching something in the qualities of the man who should be my man. Such as an entertaining man, a handworker / technical man, and advisor man, a mechanic fan man…. If you pay attention I was finding those advantages in men not in women. Men were often always kind, helpful and easy to deal with. I believe that men are kinder that women in general because they offer support or help as if they are obliged to. The communication with them always straightforward. As I grew in maturity, I realized that most men were fan of me or attracted to me, as if they were waiting or expecting that one day I decide to see in them more than best friends. This is why now I can say that “male best friend” as a concept does not exist, neither should exist for women. I can imagine that this concept exist between 2 men because it will be unconditional. It doesn’t also really exist between 2 women because women are usually not always ready to stand by someone in the bad moments. At least this is what I observed. The conclusion is, Female liberation in a hyper Feminist society, should not promote the idea of male best friend for a woman. It will allow women Monkey-branching and will ease the cheating on their men especially because modern women have inflated Hypergamy which pushes them to always seek better and feel they deserve more than what they actually deserve.